13 Traits and Characteristics of Sholeh Men

13 Traits and Characteristics of Sholeh Men – In the previous article we have discussed about the nature and characteristics of a pious woman, which discusses the nature and character of women more specifically for prospective wives and good wives for husbands. This time, we are discussing a different gender, which is specifically for men or men. If you want to get a good and pious wife, then have these qualities and characters and can reflect on the things that will be discussed below. And if you are a woman, the following characteristics can be used as a reference and benchmark in choosing a good priest candidate, so that there are no regrets in the future.

13 Traits and Characteristics of Sholeh Men

The characteristics and characteristics of pious men are as follows:

1. Have a strong religion

This is the main key for both men and women. When a strong religion is in a man, then everything else follows. Always keep his obedience to Allah and the Messenger of Allah, keep his prayers and be done in congregation and on time, because men are strongly encouraged to pray in congregation in the mosque, run practices Sunnah, diligent in worship and seeking knowledge, besides that also always protect yourself from actions that are hated by Allah. God willing, when a man has a strong faith and is devoted to Allah SWT, he will shine and have a calm face. Men like this are certainly very, very coveted by all pious women.

2. Good manners

The main point for pious men is to have good character and good manners. Morals is a reflection of a person, if his morals are good then that person is generally good, if his morals are bad then ugliness becomes a label for someone who cannot maintain his adab.

3. Thirsty for knowledge

That is, someone who is pious will never be satisfied with the knowledge gained, will always feel lacking, because he knows that knowledge if studied will never run out. And the more knowledge he knows, the more humble he will be and nothing.

4. To be responsible

How to spot a man in charge? We can see from their daily life. It can also be seen from the way he treats his parents, the people closest to him, and what he does. A pious man cannot ignore what has become his rights and obligations both towards his Lord, his work, himself and others.

5. Trust

A good and pious man must be trustworthy or trustworthy, not neglecting the tasks that have been given to him and not abusing his power and position.

6. Assertive

Firm does not mean fierce, but not fickle and firm in maintaining his dignity and firm in conveying advice and kindness. Because men are priests for their wives and children, so it takes firmness, but still have a soft heart, polite speech, not easy to hurt other people's hearts, and be careful noble.

7. Not extravagant and greedy

It's not wrong to use and spend the money, spending everything is not excessive. Not only money or material things, but other things such as in terms of eating, not excessive but also not stingy. All according to the portion. Because anything in excess is not good.

8. Hang out with pious people

Gather in dhikr mosques or always gather with people who invite to virtue. How he is said to be pious, but every day he gathers with people who neglect religion. Stay away from promiscuity, such as associating between men and women without limits, and still maintaining their dignity in front of Allah SWT.

9. Keeping sight

Not only women who have to guard their eyes, pious men always keep their eyes from immoral acts, don't like to see something that is not yet lawful, always bows his head and does not look at women who are not his muhrim especially until they apply or act more than that. Not only eyes, but also able to keep hands, heart and mind from things that are not recommended by religion.

10. Humble and forgiving

Not arrogant, always keep his mouth by saying polite and good choice of words, no pride yourself and always be humble to anyone and always forgive everyone's mistakes other.

11. Charismatic and always maintain personal hygiene

Men who have charisma, always appear in neat clothes and keep their bodies clean. Clean not only by bathing at least 2 times a day, but also keeping from bad body odor.

12. Patience and sincere

Have a patient and sincere heart in accepting all tests from Allah. Not grumpy, weak, let alone to despair. Because always believe that Allah is always with those who are pious.

13. Have love and affection

A pious man certainly has a wide heart and is full of love and affection. It can be seen from how he treats his mother, father, brothers, and other believers. From broad love and affection, understanding and caring will arise. It's amazing how perfect a man is if he has responsibility, love and affection and care.

So, those are the characteristics of a pious man. So, if these characteristics exist in your partner, it means he is a good and pious man. Then what if the man still dares to invite you both together, holding hands let alone until touching inappropriately from a body that is not his mahram to dare to commit adultery, it means he is not a man SHOLEH.

Because basically pious men are always afraid of the punishment and threats of Allah and have a very big shame when doing things that go out of the corridor of religion. Remember, if these qualities and characteristics already exist in a man, and he still does not fear Allah, then it is necessary to ask how much firmness he has in obeying Allah's commands. And a good man is not necessarily pious, because even thugs can be good, but he is not pious. Hopefully you and your partner or potential partner are pious people. Amen.

Thus a brief discussion of 13 Traits and Characteristics of Sholeh Men, may be useful and useful for all of us. Thank you.